How will we know who wants to play with us?

• To try and break the ice a little we have created a section on the site where people who have an invitation to the parties can see who else is attending. This allows you to start chatting to each other, swap a few pix, and help you decide who you want to play with before you get here.

• When you are here you will probably see someone you like the look of, and then its up to you. Flirt, maintain eye contact, be bold, ask the person if they would like to play. Watch them if they are playing in one of the play areas, and see if they let you join in.

• If people are playing, and you approach them, they have the chance to say No. If they do not say No, then join in the action.

• If anyone says No to you. Please respect their wishes and leave them in peace. Do not pursue them, you will be wasting your time and probably causing the other party distress. If you do persist we will ask you to leave the party.