Welcome to ddParties. 

ddParties runs Swingers Parties for Swingers in Spain

Thanks to all our guests, you all help make these parties a success.

help wanted

We are looking for a bar person for our parties.

Hours: 9:30 p.m. to 3:00 a.m.

This is a paid position.

Click here for more details.



We only have about 20 condoms left, so if people could bring some with them and just chuck your extras in the big bowl upstairs it would be appreciated. We started with just over 1000 condoms in May last year. There has been a lot of shagging going on!

We are looking for a new condom sponsor for the parties, so if anyone knows any condom suppliers that would like some advertising in return for a supply of condoms let us know.

new features

Our next party is our Halloween party on Saturday 29th October.

This party is for couples, single ladies and trios.

This is a Theme / Fancy dress party. We hope to see lots of Witches, Ogres, Monsters and similar fun fancy dress costumes.

Opening Hours

Our Saturday parties start at 10pm and finish sometime between 2 and 4am. 

Please avoid arriving early, as it delays us preparing for the party.

The parties are run in our home in San Bartolomé, Alicante, Spain - the easiest way to find us is to enter "Scuba Retreat, Spain" into google maps.

Our parties are for mixed sex couples, single ladies and mixed sex trios. We occasionally have parties for couples and singles, check the events page to find out the current schedule of parties.

We get a lot of questions about the ages of our guests. We hope this answers your questions.

  • The average age of women at our parties is 48.
  • The average age of the men at our parties is 50.
  • The oldest regular guest is 70
  • The youngest guest this year was 20 

Single Men

In response to conversations we have had with several couples we are changing the rules on single men attending with couples as a trio.

If the party is a couples, ladies and trios party:

  • Single men may only attend as the guest of a couple.
  • Single men must be between 20 and 45.
  • We reserve the right to ask men arriving for these parties for proof of age if they look over 45.
  • Single men must arrive and leave with the couple who are sponsoring them.
  • Single men who add themselves to the guest list without having a sponsor couple will be removed.
  • Single men who turn up at the house without a female partner or a couple will be refused entry. 
  • Attendance at a previous party does not give you a pass for future parties.

We do not do personal invitations for single men, it is up to you to find a couple or lady to attend with.

We recommend using www.dirty-david.com to find a swinging partner.

Please do not ring or WhatsApp us asking for an invitation - you will not get one.

If the party is a couples and singles party:

  • Single men must be between 20 and 45.
  • Single men need to send an email to Jo at least a week before the party asking for an invitation
  • You need to attach a photo showing your face or a full length portrait.
  • Men sending cock shots will not be invited.
  • Jo will review the applications and select the men who will be given invitations. 
  • Single men must have a personal invitation to attend.

New Site Features & More Parties

New Features

We have been busy adding extras to the website so that you can do more things online. This month we have added a private messaging system so that you can contact the other guests directly.

More Parties 

Following the success of the pool party in June, we have added a pool party in July and another in August. As with the June Party these parties are for couples and singles, though there will be limits on how many men and the usual age cap of 45 for single male guests.

Jo and I have decided to start our dive holiday in January next year, rather than in December. This means that we will now be having an Xmas party on December 17th and a New Years party on December 31st.

Party Dates

Make a note of the dates in your diary, and don't forget to bring your friends along as well.

Remaining Scheduled Parties for 2016

  • Saturday October 29th - Couples, Single Ladies & Trios
  • Saturday 27th November - Couples, Single Ladies & Trios
  • Saturday 17th December - Xmas Party - Couples, Single Ladies & Trios
  • Saturday 31st December - New Years Eve Party - Couples, Single Ladies & Trios

Provisional Party Dates for 2017

The end of the month parties are on the last Saturday of the month as usual.

We may add some mid month parties and revise the dates of the pool parties.

  • Saturday 25th March
  • Saturday 29th April
  • Saturday 27th May
  • Tuesday 6th June - Pool Party
  • Saturday 24th June
  • Tuesday 11th July - Pool Party
  • Saturday 29th July
  • Tuesday 8th August - Pool Party
  • Saturday 26th August
  • Saturday 30th September

Party Forum

We have added a forum to the site.

You can use this to talk to other guests, tell them how much you enjoy the parties, tell us what we can do to make the parties better, suggest party themes etc.

Give it a try and let us know what you think

Registering to Attend a Party

Our party booking system is automated. You simply register and create a profile (all free) You need to use a valid email, as the system will send you a confirmation email. Once your profile is created you can book to attend any of the parties listed.

To see who else is coming to the party, log in to the system and visit the guest list page. Details of the parties can be found by logging in and reading the Guest List page.

Entry Donations - 2016 

We do not make a profit from the parties, the donation is to help us cover the costs of running the events.

  • Mixed Sex Couples - 15€
  • Male, Male, Female Trios - 30€
  • Female, Female, Male Trios - 15€
  • Single Ladies - Free
  • Single Men - 15€ 

This donation covers the costs of all your drinks and we provide a buffet.

The donation also covers the costs of cleaning, laundry, repairs and replacements for wear & tear & breakages.

Entry Donations - 2017 

We do not make a profit from the parties, the donation is to help us cover the costs of running the events.

  • Mixed Sex Couples - 20€
  • Male, Male, Female Trios - 40€
  • Female, Female, Male Trios - 20€
  • Single Ladies - Free
  • Single Men - 20€ 

This donation covers the costs of all your drinks and we provide a buffet.

The donation also covers the costs of cleaning, laundry, repairs and replacements for wear & tear & breakages.

Thanks to our guests 

Thanks to everyone who came to our previous parties, we think most people went home happy.

Please Note: All our parties are held in our home in Rafal (7kms from Almoradi, 8kms from AP7 junction 840 or 8kms from E15 junction 538)

We are able to cater for a maximum of 60 people.

Guest Feedback

Read what guests at previous parties have thought about our parties.

Please leave your own feedback if you have attended one of our events.

Read Reviews..

Overnight Stays on Party Nights

We have been asked about the possibility of staying overnight on party nights.

We are able to accommodate a maximum of 3 couples. The bedrooms become available when everyone has finished playing.

For details read Overnight stays at Casa Fiesta

Local Hotels

Some people who are travelling a long distance have asked about local hotels.

We have put a list together of hotels we have found on the hotel site booking.com

To see the Hotels page got to Local Hotels

Taxi Services

We were asked at our June party if there were any local taxi services. Read Here for details

We welcome all swingers from all along the Costas to cum and join us for nights of fun.

These pages are here to set out details of how, where and when our swingers parties are run, and how you can contact us to arrange to attend.

We hope to make some new friends and to renew old friendships again.

Jo & David.

3rd October 2016.

Our next Swingers Party is

The party will be hosted by Jo & David at our home in Rafal near Almoradi and Orihuela, Alicante.

ddparties, swingers parties for couples and singles in spain

Our Next Swingers Social is

The next social will be held in "Frankies" in Los Montesinos.

spanish socials, swingers socials for couples and singles in spain

Reciprocal Links

swinging heaven swingers contacts

Free swinging site
Swinging at FabSwingers.com
Sex, Travel, Friends, Parties, Trips & Much More... Kasidie.com

watch english tv in spain

Click for Holiday Sex Guide, sex links to Nightlfe world wide.
augenweide.com - Die Erotik-Community für telefonisch geprüfte Paare.
augenweide.com - die Erotik-Community nur für Paare!

Fun4all Swingers Café
Clubs and parties.com - thousands of swingers and fetish clubs


Uniform Swingers - Contact ads for swingers who want to meet swingers in uniform
Naked Pets - Erotic adult Photography in the UK. Any adult erotica photography project undertaken from parties, to individual adult shoots and this can be from soft to hard core
Morbonet - Swingers contacts in Spain
Costa Calida Swingers - Swingers Contacts for the Costa Calida
Swinging Heaven - UK Swinging Contacts
Swinging Cougars - Cougars seeking male cubs for NSA sex
spanish Socials - Swingers Social nights in Benidorm, Spain
Benidorm Spotlight - A guide to everything in Benidorm, Holidays, Nightlife, clubs and bars.
Costa Blanca Swingers - Free swingers ads for the Costa Blanca
The Costa Blanca Sex Guide - All the parties, all the escorts, all the clubs all the ........
Janes Guide - For information on the best sex sites in the world
Swingers in Spain - The best contact site for swingers in Spain
International Swingers - Swingers from all over the world
Parejas.net - Swingers ads in Spanish
As seen in Female Focus Magazine

Copyright © 2004 - 2016 ddParties